This year needs to be about flow for me… I am tired… tired of fighting against people (including myself) and situations that do not feel in alignment. If something/ someone constantly feels like effort then either the situation needs to change or the situation/ person needs to be removed from my life.
I really don’t NEED anything, and I am pretty self-sufficient and can do many things for myself. So it becomes a question of WHAT DO I WANT?
In very simple terms, I outline the following very high level wants from 2026:
D/s connections
- must not be draining to me
- there must be a ROI from the connection
- must be based on genuine devotion and/ or usefulness
- opportunities for growth and exploration
- purposeful, geared towards creating a small stable of complimentary subs
Femdom
- focus on making content
- minimal sessions… pre vetted… high fees (or master bondage skills)
- making enough money to enable me to at least reduce my full time work hours to part time by this time next year
- develop new skills and explore new niches
Sexuality
- A big beautiful cock or two to service my desires
- A mouth or two to use whenever I please
- Gangbang
R&R
- reading
- mediation
- sauna
- spa breaks
- get aways/ holidays
- new experiences
Health & Fitness
Treat my body as the divine temple it is…
- healthy good quality foods
- regular gym workouts
- Netball
- Pole fitness
- Spartan Race
- Hyrox competition
- Therapy
- diagnosis of relevant conditions and treatment
Friendships
- fun
- supportive
- uplifting
Vanilla Work
- find my own projects to lead to make this year bearable
Learning
- code (full stack web development and automation)
- poker
- chess
- bondage
- findom
- blackmail fantasy
Things I want in 2026
Currently in no particular order:
People that will:
- Chauffeur me, particularly longer distances
- Cook for/ meal prep for me
- Train me at the gym
- Go shopping for me
- Clean and tidy my house
- Clean my car
- Film content for me
- Edit content for me
- Create clip descriptions for me
- Upload and schedule clips for me
- Run social medial for me
- Do “photoshoots” for me
- Star in content with me
- Pay for and accompany me to skill building workshops
- Pay for and attend events with me
- Allow me to hone my skills on them
- Buy me gifts (particularly practical ones I’d actually use)
- Pay bills/ subscriptions for me
- Pay for nights out for me and my “bull(s)”/ friend(s)
- Devote themselves to me
- Take me away on spa days/ trips/ holidays
- Accept high expectations, selfishness and ungratefulness
- Massage me
- Fuck me with their girthy cock, but also respect me
- Watch me be fucked by a guy with a girthy cock
- Will go down on me
- Actually turn up to a gangbang
- Let me control their lives and finances
- Help me hone my femdom offering beyond clips and sessions
- Dress me
- Feed me
- Babysit for me
- Help me make plans and encourage me to follow through on them
- Be reliable and trustworthy
- Be fun and interesting to be around
- Work towards bettering themselves
- Want something long term, not fleeting or superficial
- Let me stay at their place
- Let me bring other people to their place and use it like it is my own
- Let me film at their place
- Let/ want me to be physically and emotionally sadistic towards them
- Take me on fun dates
- Chaperone for sessions